Is Your Bucket Full? How to Protect Your Energy Before It Overflows

We all have moments when fatigue, overwhelm, or stress start to take over. Whether it's due to long to-do lists, high-pressure environments, or life moving a little too fast, it's predictable that we’ll fall into familiar patterns in response.

Some of those patterns serve us—they help preserve our time, energy, or confidence. Others? They might unknowingly create tension or even conflict, not just within ourselves but with the people around us.

So, how do you know when you’re nearing that tipping point?

A mentor once shared an analogy that stuck with me: imagine a bucket of water. When the bucket is half-full, a few more drops won’t matter much. But when the bucket is already brimming, even one extra drop can make it overflow.

The same goes for us. When we have the space and energy to operate in alignment with our natural instincts—our unique Operating Engine—we’re able to stay grounded, take risks, and engage in challenges with clarity. But when our energy is drained or we’re running on fumes, even one more small task can push us past our limit.

So what happens when your bucket gets too full?

For me (Kelley), my instinct is to gather information and create a system that leads to predictable outcomes. That structure helps me conserve energy and gain peace of mind. But I’ve learned that this approach can also seem rigid—especially if someone brings a fresh idea that doesn’t quite fit into the plan.

For Jerry, his instinct is the opposite. He embraces flexibility, brainstorming, and finding better ways without getting bogged down in process. That energizes him—but it can also leave others feeling unsure of how to get what they need to move forward.

Neither approach is wrong. In fact, both are valuable. The key isn’t to suppress our instincts, but to understand and communicate them—especially during stressful times.

In work and in life, being able to say, “Hey, my bucket is getting full,” isn’t a weakness. It’s strength. It’s self-awareness. It creates space for understanding, support, and alignment.

So here’s your challenge: Take an audit of your energy level today.

• How do you monitor whether you’re gaining or losing energy?
• What are your early warning signs?
• How do you protect your energy before it’s too late?

Because at the end of the day, energy—not just effort—is often the difference between reaching your goals or falling just short of them.

Before the Bucket Overflows, Build Awareness—it’s about understanding ourselves and each other before stress takes over. Speak up before the bucket spills, and move forward with clarity and confidence. Let’s protect your team’s energy.

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